Dear friends
If anyone asks you
Her (him) and your child
Who is more important in your heart
How would you answer that
One is his own flesh and blood
One is a dependent partner
How do you compare it?
Someone asked me, the beginning of the answer is just as important, not to say who is important, under pressure I said the child important truth and the result is no game! 555
Parents first, partners second, children third
I like wise men, so I like eagles, but I disagree with that,
Since ancient times, creatures and humans have generally continued life as nature.
Filial piety is the first of parents, parenting is the first of children, the soul relies on each other to help each other carry hardships and share life together, never abandon accompanied to the old is the first of lovers.
Want to ask sister, who is so naive to ask such a question? Is there an absolute number one? All things in this world seem to me to be right, adjusting according to various changing conditions, and the unification of all things is nothing but that I love him. A question to test No

What can be expressed is not always true.
Perfect love, the partner moved to the first, the emotional breakdown of love, the partner moved to the last, in addition to the two, I agree with the eagle brother’s view
Of course it all matters. One is left hand, one is right hand.
This problem depends on the specific circumstances, in special cases, the partner is relatively important, under normal circumstances are the most close person, regardless of this. It’s a little more important than letting your partner do everything and ignoring your kids, you know. If it’s not already

The other side of the partner just wants to test you, ask it, it is nothing, when the joke; If you are too attached to this problem, personal opinion: do not worth it.
Is it important? Is it useful?
The roles are different. Need I ask?
Son, would you ask that?
I’m not going to choose because it’s not multiple choice.
I wouldn’t even ask.
This woman is not very smart
Have no wisdom
I don’t know how to ask that question
I guess she’s just too unsure of herself
You should ask: wife and mother fall into the water at the same time, who do you save first?
I don’t think the question is comparable at all.
In life, with your partner, the span of time is the longest, to get along with your heart… It’s important…..

It’s a responsibility to the child

Filial piety to parents
In my mind the child adult partner is the first.
The cat thinks you should both wait until your children have a family before considering remarrying yourself

Then ask your children to help you find a wife and buy you a house and a shrine of chastity

For your outstanding service to them

There is a dilemma between loyalty and justice

Oh, my God. Oh, my God
Yes, by nature the child is first the partner is second the parent is third
But in human terms, it’s parents first, partners second, children third
Oh, I say so, of course, the premise is that parents, partners and children are normal and harmonious relationships. From the perspective of rationality and humanity, a person in the world who cares for him the most should return to who the most I am more rational, so I will say parents first

One partner second child third
What about when the three are in conflict and you can’t reconcile? So there must be a first in the mind. There is nothing wrong with pursuing perfection, but many times there must be a trade-off
There will be no conflict, unless the other person is inconsiderate of me, then I will give them what they need according to their priorities.
My heart is here, I think my family and loved ones will understand, will not let me in such an awkward choice passive situation.
I can only say that different stages of different emotional needs, I will have different needs to give the distribution, I love the people I do not want to ignore, I can not do everything, it is not possible to revolve around a person, I think my previous answer is clear enough.
This question is like asking a person what do you think is the most important? What’s your favorite pair of clothes, pants and shoes?

Too boring went to see who is the first person to pay attention to me, after reading I smiled, it was him, has been 2 and a half years he is still in my QQ, he was chasing me before, but I don’t care about him, the reason is that I don’t look up to him, ha ha. Don’t

People have been married for more than a year now, and the wife looks good. I am still single, depressed oh!
What does this mean?! If you have too much time to find someone to love, people become busy
I wish you’d found him. You got the baby
We’re bored together. Let’s pick one so we can say goodbye to our boring days
That’s the kind of thing you miss.
If you “miss” a few similar times, then this life is almost OVER.
You’re up early enough! Don’t want to look for it yet! In half a year to say, so first boring it! The men who have good conditions for speed dating wrote to me, and I also clearly told them that they can be netizens, but they can’t fall in love, so I put in so quickly

The next relationship I can’t do.
Oh, you don’t feel sorry for me, if now let me choose, I still won’t choose him, because I don’t have that feeling for him.
You don’t want to distract me
Missed is missed, I never regret.
Idle roof
How do you call that a miss? And LZ have no basis for development
Khan,
Boring time top post play is also good, ha ha
Oh, I am boring post.
Let’s just say it wasn’t meant to be
wipe
Oh, thanks for the top post!
You have a thing for liars. Heh
Oh, you are right, too honest man I do not want to find
Along the way, we gained a lot.
Looking back at the past, the original lost more.
So what?
Can’t find the way back,
Can only move on.
The helplessness of growth, that’s all.
I’m busy and bored. I’ll do it for you.

The song “Love Illusion” sings about the sensitivity of love, accidental encounters, unrequited love and a cognitive and emotional failure of love psychology. The lyric part is like stepping on a light dance step aside from all worries, with a soulful song

Take you and me to release the depression, helplessness and sorrow in my heart!
Look out the window at the world
Bustling night
A solitary figure swaying in the air with the wind
The autumn wind is cold and cold
Snow and wind were flying all over the sky
Because you came and broke everything
The moon waxes and wanes
By the tired night
People come and go in desperate pursuit of the unknown
Walking through the old streets
Feel so strong
You will return with me to a time of memory
My love doesn’t understand
What world are you in
If you didn’t say no, why not say goodbye
If I had been firmer
I never ignore you
A little more consideration if love will end
illusion
rap:
I look at your world
An ethereal nothingness
Watching the flowers bloom and fall in your world
Chasing you flying with you so heartbroken flying with you
Love is so sweet and so ambiguous
In an instant, the flowers have faded and the ashes have flown
lai yu fu zi mei who love
Fall in love with line you don’t care to follow you don’t regret
Love is mine, mine, mine, so in the speed measurement
That line in the lyrics: “lai yu fu zi mei”
Said is: “in the wind and rain flying tears” meaning
It’s so sad…
I like singing this song
Worry about yourself first… You have other people to worry about… Hey hey
Hate to get married?
Heart melody
Faint sadness
No more – dripping blood
No longer — quite so
Brother, see you strange sad, I want to apologize to you, the other day I said a little heavy, but it is also rushed words. Rose whether she is right or wrong, first of all, she is a woman, and people go to her door at every turn, and say things that are so ugly

It always makes me feel that when I am unhappy, I will go to someone with low reputation to scold for a while. I’m a little bit 2, I don’t like to talk, hope to understand
Handsome boy, help you top the ^_^
On the way to the river, I saw a wall, such as the imagined primitive forest inside the wall, trees, weeds, streams, the wall is surrounded by white iron railings, walk along the wall for a long time and see no entrance, then go over the wall and enter, playing not a game. Turned around and came out

A gate, the door sister said how you get in, you have to buy a ticket. We said we didn’t know. We came in when no one was there. Big sister said, we have been here, why did not see you come in. Wayan was very puzzled. Well, it’s hard to say

It is over the wall to come in, come out to see the original is the river and sea scenery park, people come to less are abandoned. Now it seems to be assigned to a school, which has become an educational base.
That’s amazing.
They take money from everywhere.
The park has become a revenue base.
Wondering. Where did all the taxpayer money go?
doughty

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Nowadays, the society calls tourist attractions

It’s just a place where someone gets their money
In fact, I like some primitive places, without carving, all things grow freely.
It gets worse. Sorry to write it, hehe
That’s amazing. What a high wall. How’d you get over it? Turn over the feeling of accomplishment, ha ha, turn over well!
Oh, so impressive.

I almost jumped over the wall the other morning and found out the park gate was open
The wall is not high. If you open it, you can see the picture of me climbing over the wall. Haha.
I don’t want to, it’s just the scenery is so attractive.
We go to places that don’t charge admission
I thought you found the beautiful man… Ho ho
I thought I was going over the wall to see foreign websites, is there a handsome man in the park so I went over the wall?
See, let people to capture the evidence left ha, ha ha, do not add the original taste in the city is really difficult to see now, no wonder to attract you to take risks, have not seen a wild animal, such as pheasant hare? Wakami

To a wild Wolf fox this adventure is more vivid can write a primitive forest adventure record
Nice try
No, I’m ashamed. If the handsome guy was there, I’d do it again.
Unfortunately, writing is not good, empty full of enthusiasm, can not be used to share with you.
Modest, write not good also write, I am not a literati, no need to decorate with gorgeous words, like this real, what is more wonderful, Tao to listen to, look forward to.
Ha-ha. Thought you went to the pretty boy’s house.
It’s a new age woman
There is a saying that
Get over the fence
Have fought the hooligans
Well, write it next time when it’s fun.

Gideon: The most ordinary things in life, as small as bottles, cups, spoons, etc., have been mass-produced and become unimportant, and this tacit acceptance of banality is becoming part of human nature today.
Unfortunately, most people lack awareness and vigilance.
It is also strange to say that the Japanese ancient artifacts favored by the Chinese people at present are also an “anti-/ movement” of the Japanese tea saint Chirikyu, who is also well-known to us, from the pure worship of the Tang objects to the aesthetic of wabi-sabi and things.
The happy tea bowl made by ancient Korean artisans is a model of this kind. The Tenmu Tea bowl, which originated in the Song Dynasty and is still in Japan, is also a good example.
When we first looked at Tianmu, we always felt coarse, thick glaze, not only heavy in our hands, but also could not see clearly the color of the soup. So since the Song Dynasty, it gradually lost in China.
But it is from this Tianmu tea that Japan began to give birth to the self-confidence of “harmony aesthetics” from “Tang things are omnipotent”.
In modern Japan (random recommendation, phoenix brand Dianchun, learn tea knowledge please pay attention to: www.lhecha.CoM), Liu Zongyue of the folk arts also quite complained about thousands of Lixiu, for the time people praised him as “thousands of Lixiu”, extremely angry.
He believed that Qian Lixiu catered to the daimyo of the time, built gold teahouses, and respected the name of tea ware, which had departed from the “Tao”. Does that make us weird?
At the beginning of contact with Japanese tea ware, it is easy to be impressed by their ingenuity, and their utensils still have the charm of Tang and Song dynasties.
But it is easy to be clever by showing off skills. This is also something that those of us who like Japanese ancient artifacts cannot fail to check.
Japanese flower ceremony, tea ceremony, incense and so on, spread orderly, and full of vitality. Then, why did ancient China not form such a “Tao”?
Must not also, but do not also. Buddhism from the East of India is a good example. Assuming that there is no ancient Chinese understanding and reconstruction of the original Buddhism in India, we can imagine that Theravada Buddhism can only leave us more historical buildings like Angkor Wat.
Mahayana Buddhism has a vast number of works, tens of thousands of Buddhist doctrines, but also combined with the spirit of ancient Chinese literati, created a new “Buddhist path” : Zen.
Taoism is also a creative and imaginative work of ancient China.
The same is true of Kukama mountains in Japan. Ancient Chinese temples Jia LAN, rarely in the “small” inside efforts. When a good place is obtained, the buildings on it rarely need to be “twice” arranged.
Therefore, it seems that we have been a relatively spontaneous people since ancient times, disdaining small skills and preferring to study knowledge on the “Road of Neo-Confucianism”, so it is not surprising that we have not produced the “Tao” based on the foundation and artifacts of Japan.
The Qing Dynasty’s aesthetic from the top down is a destruction of the Tang spirit. Fortunately, the Japanese had already passed on their wandugoaesthetic.
Of course, it is a pity that young people in Japan today do not care much about the artifacts inherited by their families, which can certainly be regarded as good news for lovers of tea ceremonies and ancient artifacts in our country, but I am deeply worried that we are not ready to inherit them again.
The first, of course, is the dating of skills. I have come into contact with the works of some so-called masters, and most of them lack a little spirit.
It’s not about skill.
Second, it is aesthetic dating. Modern wars and cultural/Revolutionary wars have destroyed too many material relics. In addition to museums, it is difficult for us to come into contact with the elegance of ancient artifacts and ancient buildings in daily life.
Third, the collection of ancient artifacts, most of them still only stay in the stage of showering wealth, showering skills, and did not form a guide to the norms of daily life, so see Zhao Zhongxiang, He Shen (Wang Gang) home furnishings, the total feeling is completely wasting those valuable works of art.
Collecting like that, it’s no different than collecting precious metals.
I also do not think that Japan can have any development or breakthrough in tea utensils at present, this is not a criticism, but I think that Japanese tea utensils have reached the peak after Edo and Meiji era.
After the Meiji period, the abandonment of Confucianism and the destruction of Buddhism, under the guidance of Western American life, it is impossible to appear what cannot be developed, and it is good to make repairs.
On the other hand, I also think that the right time has not yet come, and even if such a time will not come, I think it is unknown.
After all, the age is too long, and our current state of life is still too hasty and uncertain, in this case, can have enough calm cognition of aesthetic is already extravagant.